You want cold reason: the sine qua non of ending the war is an end to Palestinian Bushido, the endless War of Return to undo 1948 "from the river to the sea". Delusion demolition of a scale and scope identical to postwar Japan and Germany is the sine qua non of peace. Nothing less will suffice.
Watch the Ask Project's video interviews with ordinary Palestinians and https://palwatch.org to understand how deeply this delusion is embedded in their population. Bahraini and UAE Arab Zionists understand this principle that you don't: https://www.thejc.com/news/meet-the-arab-zionists-a-new-generation-of-online-pioneers-k6l1z8qm
You want cold reason? Here it is from Israeli Bismarck Dan Schueftan: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VH3-h44VRrQ&t=2135s
Appeasing Islamists doesn't work. Listen to Son of Hamas founder Mosab Hassan Yousef: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TpUxdimazbE
