I like symmetry.

When I see a synagogue in Mecca, you can build a mosque in Manhattan or Zurich.

When my wife can walk on a Saudi beach in a bikini sipping a margarita Muslim parents can censor secular public school education in the West.

https://medium.com/discourse/we-always-live-by-social-norms-rules-12e765ab9bcf

In our world we make the secular rules that theocrats of whatever religion must adapt to. If you don't like it, live in a poor misgoverned Muslim state you or your parents fled from. Here's a contract for Muslim immigrants to live by:

1. Groups don’t have rights, only individuals.

2. Secular constitutions supersede all religious law (Sharia, Koranic, Catholic canon law, Mosaic law). All satire of religious belief is protected speech. Religion as an ideology and belief system enjoys no special exemption from satire, ridicule, insult and open debate. Blasphemy is not a valid legal concept.

3. Absolute freedom of conscience in religion. All individuals, including all your family members, have the right to convert to another religion or no religion.

4. Female genital mutilation (FGM) is illegal and criminal.

5. Women have equal rights under the law. Your female children over the state’s age of consent have the right to marry, partner and have sexual relations with whom they choose, of a different religion or of no religion. Your female children have the right not to marry. Coercive arranged marriage is illegal. Child marriage is illegal.

6. Family honor is not a valid legal concept.Muslims in the West must explicitly renounce family honor as a legal concept and acknowledge the illegality of honor killing.

7. Wife-beating is illegal. Wives, and daughters over 18, have absolute freedom of choice in dress. Male relatives have no legal right to limit female family members’ freedom of choice in dress. (Only this taboo-breaker can solve the problem Algerian novelist Kamel Daoud wrote about: “Clothing is also given to extremes: At one end is the burqa, the orthodox full-body covering; at the other is the hijab moutabaraj (“the veil that reveals”), which combines a head scarf with slim-fit jeans or tight pants. On the beach, the burqini confronts the bikini.”)

8. Homosexuality and homosexual relations are legal and homosexuals have equal legal rights. If you own a business you have no legal right to refuse employment to a qualified homosexual applicant or service to a homosexual customer because of his or her sexual orientation.

9. Holocaust denial is illegal hate speech.

10. Antisemitic speech, as defined by the International Holocaust Remembrance Alliance’s definition accepted by over 40 countries, is a hate crime punishable by fines and imprisonment. The IHRA defines anti-Zionism as anti-semitic hate speech. Accepted by 40+ countries, it defines “denying the Jewish people their right to self-determination, e.g., by claiming that the existence of a State of Israel is a racist endeavor” as anti-semitism.

If you want modern western goodies, they come with westernization. Reread Bernard Lewis. Modernization without institutional westernization is impossible.

Ask Singapore, Taiwan, South Korea, Japan. Japan trade Bushido for baseball in 1945. The results speak for themselves.