I don't play golf. But I've made lots friends through basketball 🏀 and skiing. When I was a Riga Business School professor playing basketball with my students was a window into their character, sense of teamwork, fair play, perseverance.
Some women students chose basketball as their sports activity, one a 4'11" Tadzhik I taught to shoot a jump shot.
When I played a game with three women teammates against four bigger, stronger guys. I explained to them beforehand that basketball is a game of psychological warfare and not to let the guys mess with their heads.
We beat them with teamwork, defence they didn't have and their low expectations of us as a team of three girls and one 60 year-old prof.
Learn golf, go as a female foursome, challenge them to a game and win. Then you'll be invited.