And we can love our Muslim brothers AND their sisters imprisoned by a malignant shame and honor culture kept in place by a retrograde medieval religious ideology, the % of whose adherents who are holy book literalists is far higher than any other.
But I'll let the poll numbers tell the story: https://medium.com/discourse/we-always-live-by-social-norms-rules-12e765ab9bcf
About 10-15% of Muslims are potential jihadi recruits, ideologically adjacent or sympathizers.
The only solution to Muslim on Muslim mass murder in the name of jihad is for the Muslim world to undergo the same process of secularization the West did. The theocrat-driven political violence in the American outlier to this process (Hang Mike Pence accompanied by Jesus is my lord, Trump my president) only provides further proof.